Former Tyrone gaelic footballer Jody Gormley has stated he possesses “no fear of dying whatsoever” following his diagnosis with terminal liver cancer. Gormley also expressed feeling “fortunate” for the chance to bid farewell to his family and friends. During the 1990s, Gormley was a notable figure for the Red Hands, contributing to the county’s Ulster Championship victory in 1995 and their progression to the All-Ireland final in the same year. The 53-year-old, who was informed by doctors in mid-September that he has only months remaining, was managing his club Trillick as recently as last week. Following Trillick’s defeat by Errigal Ciaran in the Tyrone Senior Football Championship final, he conveyed the news to his players in the dressing room. Speaking on The GAA Social, Gormley stated: “I have no fear of dying. No fear of dying whatsoever. I’ve felt blessed my entire life. The sadness is the people you’re leaving behind. That I’ll not get to see my son, he’s training hard with Trillick, he’s come back after a couple of years, that I’ll not get to see him play and I’ll not get to see my family grow up and mature. That’s not scary but sad really. That’s the reality. When you peel it all back, it’s the people close to you that you’re not going to have those experiences with. That is the genuine sadness, there’s no being tough around that, that’s the reality.” Gormley, who guided Trillick to the 2023 Tyrone title, experienced a stroke in July while exercising in the gym with his son James during a family vacation in Florida. Although he believed he had made a quick and complete recovery, he was readmitted to hospital in September, where he received a diagnosis of stage four liver cancer. Earlier this week, Gormley attended a gathering at a Belfast pub, where he expressed being moved by the affection and esteem shown by his family and friends. He reiterated his feeling of being “fortunate” to have the chance to say goodbye to his loved ones. Gormley further commented: “I think it’s important, for me anyway, to show that even if you’re facing the ultimate challenge that you can be resilient. It’s important for my family to show strength of character and the people around me. It’s an opportunity for me to show that yeah just because you have a terminal illness doesn’t mean your life is over. I intend to go out with a bang, I’m not going to lie down in the corner. People need different role models and I suppose in my role in my life as a teacher and a coach, I’ve had that role. This an opportunity to show that you can keep on going and if somebody finds something of use in it it’s worthwhile.” Gormley recounted his experience to Oisin McConville and Thomas Niblock of The GAA Social. He enjoyed an extensive and accomplished inter-county career, serving as a consistent force in the Tyrone midfield during their journey to the 1995 All-Ireland final, where they were defeated by Dublin. In that championship match, Gormley was the sole Tyrone player to score apart from Peter Canavan. He has also held playing or coaching positions with Down, London, Antrim, and Bredagh, attributing his recent strength and resilience to a lifelong commitment to sport. He remarked: “It’s probably tougher on the family than me. I’d say I’m fairly hard-nosed about stuff. When you’re involved in sport, I think you do develop that resilience over years of training and the different setbacks you meet in sport.” Gormley further stated his wish to be remembered as a “decent person who helped people out as much as I could.” He elaborated, “[Who] tried to find areas to help people improve, to improve their life and give them a wee nudge in the right direction. And, obviously, a Trillick man.” For those impacted by the themes in this narrative, BBC Action Line provides resources and connections to organizations offering assistance and guidance.

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