The family of a British man who died in Ukraine has honored him, stating they “begged him not to go” but he was determined to offer assistance. Callum Tindal-Draper, a 22-year-old from Cornwall, was confirmed by his family to have been killed in action on 5 November. His family stated they received this information from the 4th International Legion, explaining that he died while his foreign volunteer platoon was defending an observation point. Steven Draper, his father, conveyed the family’s pride in their “brave” son. He recounted that before Mr. Tindal-Draper departed for Ukraine in June, he had acknowledged the significant risks involved and the low probability of his return. The Foreign Office issued a statement, saying: “We are aware that a British national has reportedly died in Ukraine and stand ready to assist the family in the UK.” Official guidance from the Foreign Office has consistently advised against travel to Ukraine due to the ongoing conflict with Russia. Mr. Draper mentioned that the family, residing in Gunnislake, Cornwall, had attempted to dissuade his son from traveling to Ukraine. Nevertheless, he explained that after Mr. Tindal-Draper informed them of his unwavering resolve to go and assist, the family provided their full support for his decision, understanding his deep commitment to the cause. “We begged and begged and begged him not to go,” Mr. Draper stated. He added that Callum responded, “‘dad, I’m not frightened of bullies and what’s going on in Ukraine is awful and someone needs to stand up for these people’.” Caroline Tindal, his mother, expressed that the entire family was “so proud” of Mr. Tindal-Draper, noting his previous employment at Derriford Hospital in Plymouth and his role as a community carer. She visited her son in Ukraine during September and observed a significant personal maturation in him. “It was such a transformation and he said to me ‘mum, coming out here was the best thing that ever happened to me, I’ve found who I was meant to be’,” Ms. Tindal recounted. She further commented, “He found who he was meant to be, he became that person and he lived it.” Ms. Tindal also mentioned that Mr. Tindal-Draper’s battalion had conveyed to the family, through video messages and handwritten letters, their high regard for him and that he served as an inspiration to them in Ukraine. Ms. Tindal shared: “When we found out he’d died, there was just this hole which I can’t describe and it’s always going to be there.” She continued, “But to know that they are saying he inspired them and they called him their little brother because he was the youngest one out there, they really were a family unit, and that is helping heal us and helping us get by.” “Already that hole I thought could not be mended is being filled with overwhelming love from his family out there and it means so much,” she concluded. Mr. Draper described the void created by his son’s passing as “crushing,” but noted he was finding solace and pride in the sentiments expressed by his comrades to the family. He further remarked: “It’s inspiring me to go out and think what can I do and how can I be as brave and courageous in the things that I do.” “I’ve got the bravest of the brave as a son as an inspiration and that’s really powerful,” he added. Ms. Tindal confirmed that the family has not yet received Mr. Tindal-Draper’s body, but they intend to inter him in Ukraine. She explained: “He wanted to stay in Ukraine and live in Ukraine, so I think even if we had the body we would bury him in Ukraine – that’s where he found his home.” Duchy College, where Mr. Tindal-Draper was a student in its Military and Protective Services Academy, also issued a tribute. A Facebook post from the academy characterized Mr. Tindal-Draper as a “passionate, articulate and bright student” possessing a strong moral compass. The post further stated: “He was well liked and respected by his peers, and was not one to shy away from causes he believed in and was instrumental in collecting the three minibus loads of equipment that the learners gathered when the war in Ukraine initially kicked off.” It continued: “Callum truly believed in his sense of duty and after working for the NHS after the course, decided it was his duty to help Ukraine and joined the International Legion of Ukraine in the summer.” The post concluded by mentioning that Mr. Tindal-Draper would be honored during services scheduled for Sunday and Monday to observe Remembrance Day.

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